When Did You Last Ask Why?

Written on 02/22/2026
Bandan Singh

Moving fast without asking Why is the most expensive mistake product teams make.

Most teams that want to move fast believe they need the same set of things.

  • A clear owner of the work.

  • Faster decisions.

  • Everyone aligned.

  • Requirements locked.

  • Delivery on time.

If you have spent enough years in a company, none of this surprises you. Let us call these the fast-work assumptions.

Here is the non-obvious part.

None of these assumptions are wrong. But they quietly push out the one thing that actually determines whether the work is moving in right direction.

And that is ..the courage to ask tough questions (I will get to what kind of), even when the work is already moving, even when people are motivated, even when stopping to ask feels like the worst thing you could do to a team that is finally making progress.

Most meaningful work involves the sweat and effort of many people. There is also a lot of reporting upward. Updates, slides, demos, check-ins with senior leadership. All of this creates a momentum that starts to feel bigger than any individual. And once that momentum builds, nobody wants to be the person who kills it.

Especially not you.

Especially not when everyone around you seems energized and inspired.

The social cost of asking Why feels much higher than the professional cost of not asking it.

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Then there is management.

Most managers genuinely want to help. So they show up asking things like, what can I do to unblock you, what do you need from me, how can I help? And in a busy week, the most satisfying managerial moment is a simple one. Someone was stuck. I helped them. We are moving again. Job done.

This is not bad management. But it is management that is entirely pointed at How. How do we keep moving. How do we clear the path. How do we hit the date.

When the team is asking How, and the manager is asking How, and the stakeholders are asking How, the Why disappears. Not because anyone decided it was no longer important. But because everyone quietly assumed someone else had already sorted it.

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Here is what a HOW-only team sounds like in practice:

  • Can we prioritise better?

  • Can we get more resources?

  • Why is this deadline so tight?

  • The requirements are still unclear

And here is what a team that keeps asking WHY sounds like:

  • What problem are we actually trying to solve?

  • What changes for our customers once we ship this?

  • Are we still moving toward the outcome we said we cared about.

Notice the difference.

One set of questions is about managing the work. The other is about questioning whether the work is right.

But here is the real catch, and this one is easy to miss.

Most teams treat Why as a phase.

You do your discovery. You define the problem. You get alignment on the outcome. And then at some point, without anyone officially calling it, the Why chapter closes and the How chapter opens. The thinking is done. Now comes the doing.

This feels logical. It even feels mature, like you did your homework before putting your head down.

But it is one of the most expensive assumptions a team can make.

Why does not have a closing time.

The problem you defined in week one looks different in week six when real constraints have surfaced and the market has shifted and the team has learned things that were not visible at the start. The outcome you aligned on in the kickoff may no longer be the right one. The assumptions baked into your locked requirements have not been tested against anything real yet.

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Asking Why in the middle of delivery does not mean going backwards. It means refusing to arrive somewhere nobody actually wanted to go.

The teams that consistently ship things that matter are not the ones with the best sprint rituals or the most refined prioritization frameworks. They are the ones where someone, somewhere in the room, never fully stops asking:

  • Are we still solving the right problem?

  • Are we actually moving toward the outcome?

  • Would we make the same bets today that we made three weeks ago?

That question, kept alive through the whole journey, is what separates motion from progress.

So when did you last ask Why?

And I don’t mean during a kickoff, or in a retro.

But did you ask it in the middle of work that was already moving fast and felt too alive to question?

If you have to think hard to remember, that is your answer.

Remember that Ten minutes of Why saves could save your team Three Months of How.

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